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N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed odborn\u00edci se domn\u00edvaj\u00ed, \u017ee tomu tak nen\u00ed. Podle nich jde o norm\u00e1ln\u00ed reakci na abnorm\u00e1ln\u00ed lidi. Jin\u00ed tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee spoluz\u00e1vislost je chronick\u00e9 a progresivn\u00ed onemocn\u011bn\u00ed. Podle tohoto konceptu spoluz\u00e1visl\u00ed cht\u011bj\u00ed a pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed nemocn\u00e9 lidi kolem sebe, aby se c\u00edtili \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed nezdrav\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem. Man\u017eelka alkoholika si takovou osobu musela vz\u00edt a ona si ho vybrala pr\u00e1v\u011b proto, \u017ee si nev\u011bdomky myslela, \u017ee je alkoholik. Nav\u00edc pot\u0159ebuje jeho opilost a jeho bit\u00ed, aby se c\u00edtila spokojen\u00e1.<\/p>\n
Je norm\u00e1ln\u00ed sna\u017eit se chr\u00e1nit a pom\u00e1hat lidem, kter\u00e9 m\u00e1me r\u00e1di. Je tak\u00e9 norm\u00e1ln\u00ed b\u00fdt ovliv\u0148ov\u00e1n a ur\u010dit\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem reagovat na probl\u00e9my druh\u00fdch. \u010c\u00edm z\u00e1va\u017en\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je probl\u00e9m a \u010d\u00edm d\u00e9le z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 nevy\u0159e\u0161en, t\u00edm jsme vlivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a reagujeme n\u00e1siln\u011bji.<\/p>\n
Zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je zde slovo \u201ereagovat\u201c. Bez ohledu na to, jak p\u0159istupujete ke spoluz\u00e1vislosti, jak ji definujete a z jak\u00fdch metodologick\u00fdch pozic se ji sna\u017e\u00edte diagnostikovat a l\u00e9\u010dit, z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 prim\u00e1rn\u011b reaktivn\u00edm procesem. Spoluz\u00e1visl\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161inou reaguj\u00ed. Jejich reakce je \u010dasto nevhodn\u00e1 – ost\u0159ej\u0161\u00ed nebo slab\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e je nutn\u00e9. Z\u0159\u00eddka v\u0161ak jednaj\u00ed. Spoluz\u00e1visl\u00ed reaguj\u00ed na probl\u00e9my, bolest, \u017eivot a chov\u00e1n\u00ed ostatn\u00edch. Reaguj\u00ed na sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed probl\u00e9my, bolest a chov\u00e1n\u00ed. V mnoha p\u0159\u00edpadech jsou jejich reakce zp\u016fsobeny stresem a nejistotou bydlen\u00ed nebo vyr\u016fst\u00e1n\u00edm uprost\u0159ed alkoholismu a dal\u0161\u00edmi probl\u00e9my. Je norm\u00e1ln\u00ed, \u017ee \u010dlov\u011bk reaguje na stres. Nen\u00ed to neobvykl\u00e9, ale vy\u017eaduje to hrdinsk\u00e9 \u00fasil\u00ed a pro na\u0161e samotn\u00e9 p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 nau\u010dit se nereagovat, ale jednat zdrav\u011bji. V\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s v\u0161ak k tomu pot\u0159ebuje pomoc.<\/p>\n
V\u00e1\u017en\u00fdm d\u016fvodem pro to, aby byla spoluz\u00e1vislost pova\u017eov\u00e1na za nemoc, je jej\u00ed progresivn\u00ed pr\u016fb\u011bh. \u010c\u00edm hor\u0161\u00ed je stav lid\u00ed kolem n\u00e1s, t\u00edm energi\u010dt\u011bji reagujeme. To, co p\u016fvodn\u011b byla m\u00edrn\u00e1 \u00fazkost, m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st k izolaci, depresi, emocion\u00e1ln\u00edm nebo fyzick\u00fdm onemocn\u011bn\u00edm a dokonce k sebevra\u017eedn\u00fdm my\u0161lenk\u00e1m. Spust\u00ed se \u0159et\u011bzov\u00e1 reakce a v\u011bci se rychle zhor\u0161\u00ed. Spoluz\u00e1vislost nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt nemoc, ale m\u016f\u017eeme z n\u00ed onemocn\u011bt, stejn\u011b jako zabr\u00e1nit lidem v zotaven\u00ed.<\/p>\n
Dal\u0161\u00edm d\u016fvodem pro to, aby byla spoluz\u00e1vislost pova\u017eov\u00e1na za nemoc, je skute\u010dnost, \u017ee se z jej\u00edho charakteristick\u00e9ho vzorce chov\u00e1n\u00ed – jako v\u011bt\u0161ina sebezni\u010duj\u00edc\u00edch vzorc\u016f jedn\u00e1n\u00ed – st\u00e1v\u00e1 zvyk. Lid\u00e9 opakuj\u00ed b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 \u010dinnosti bez p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed. T\u00edmto zp\u016fsobem si zvyky \u017eij\u00ed sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed \u017eivot.<\/p>\n
Bez ohledu na to, jak\u00e9 probl\u00e9my m\u00e1 ten druh\u00fd, spoluz\u00e1vislost odemyk\u00e1 stereotypn\u00ed syst\u00e9m my\u0161lenek, pocit\u016f a zp\u016fsob\u016f jedn\u00e1n\u00ed v\u016f\u010di sob\u011b a ostatn\u00edm, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1m mohou zp\u016fsobit bolest. Spoluz\u00e1visl\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed a n\u00e1vyky jsou sebezni\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed. \u010casto reagujeme na lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed se sna\u017e\u00ed zni\u010dit jejich \u017eivoty, nau\u010den\u00edm se ni\u010dit sami sebe. Tyto n\u00e1vyky mohou zp\u016fsobit, \u017ee za\u010dnete nebo udr\u017eujete devastuj\u00edc\u00ed vztahy, kter\u00e9 jsou od za\u010d\u00e1tku odsouzeny k ne\u00fasp\u011bchu. Nau\u010den\u00e9 vzorce chov\u00e1n\u00ed mohou zp\u016fsobit selh\u00e1n\u00ed vztah\u016f, i kdy\u017e by se jinak dob\u0159e vyv\u00edjely. Mohou zp\u016fsobit, \u017ee nebudeme \u017e\u00edt pokojn\u011b a \u0161\u0165astn\u011b s nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed osobou v na\u0161em \u017eivot\u011b – se sebou sam\u00fdmi.<\/p>\n
Spoluz\u00e1visl\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed poch\u00e1z\u00ed od jedin\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00e9ho je ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s schopen ovl\u00e1dat, jedin\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00e9ho jsme schopni zm\u011bnit – od sebe. 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