{"id":4961,"date":"2020-10-29T10:44:04","date_gmt":"2020-10-29T10:44:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/codependency.eu\/who-suffers\/"},"modified":"2021-06-22T03:37:35","modified_gmt":"2021-06-22T03:37:35","slug":"who-suffers-from-codependence","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/codependency.eu\/cs\/problems\/who-suffers-from-codependence\/","title":{"rendered":"Kdo trp\u00ed spoluz\u00e1vislost\u00ed?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8220;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8220;Header&#8220; _builder_version=&#8220;4.5.1&#8243; background_color=&#8220;#f7f9f9&#8243; background_image=&#8220;https:\/\/codependency.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/problem-2-hero-1.jpg&#8220; custom_padding=&#8220;10%||10%||false|false&#8220; collapsed=&#8220;off&#8220;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8220;3.25&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8220;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8220;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8220;60px|||&#8220; custom_padding_tablet=&#8220;0px||&#8220; custom_padding_phone=&#8220;&#8220; custom_padding_last_edited=&#8220;on|tablet&#8220; padding_tablet=&#8220;0px||&#8220; padding_last_edited=&#8220;on|tablet&#8220; custom_padding__hover=&#8220;|||&#8220;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8220;Who suffers?&#8220; _builder_version=&#8220;4.5.1&#8243; text_font=&#8220;||||||||&#8220; text_line_height=&#8220;2em&#8220; header_font=&#8220;Faustina|600|||||||&#8220; header_text_color=&#8220;#ffffff&#8220; header_font_size=&#8220;60px&#8220; header_line_height=&#8220;1.3em&#8220; background_layout=&#8220;dark&#8220; hover_enabled=&#8220;0&#8243; header_font_size_tablet=&#8220;50px&#8220; header_font_size_phone=&#8220;40px&#8220; header_font_size_last_edited=&#8220;on|phone&#8220;]<\/p>\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\">Kdo trp\u00ed spoluz\u00e1vislost\u00ed?<\/h1>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8220;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8220;Description&#8220; _builder_version=&#8220;4.5.1&#8243; _module_preset=&#8220;default&#8220;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8220;4.5.1&#8243; _module_preset=&#8220;default&#8220;][et_pb_column type=&#8220;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8220;4.5.1&#8243; _module_preset=&#8220;default&#8220;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8220;text&#8220; _builder_version=&#8220;4.5.1&#8243; text_font=&#8220;||||||||&#8220; text_text_color=&#8220;#232323&#8243; text_line_height=&#8220;2em&#8220; header_font=&#8220;Faustina|700|||||||&#8220; header_text_align=&#8220;center&#8220; header_text_color=&#8220;#0e7162&#8243; header_font_size=&#8220;60px&#8220; header_line_height=&#8220;1.3em&#8220; header_2_font=&#8220;|700|||||||&#8220; header_2_text_align=&#8220;center&#8220; header_2_text_color=&#8220;#0e7162&#8243; background_layout=&#8220;dark&#8220; hover_enabled=&#8220;0&#8243; header_font_size_tablet=&#8220;50px&#8220; header_font_size_phone=&#8220;40px&#8220; header_font_size_last_edited=&#8220;on|phone&#8220;]<\/p>\n<p>Spoluz\u00e1visl\u00ed lid\u00e9 vykazuj\u00ed n\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00ed vlastnosti a chov\u00e1n\u00ed:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Nejistota<\/strong>\n<p>Spoluz\u00e1visl\u00ed lid\u00e9 \u017eij\u00ed pro ostatn\u00ed a zanedb\u00e1vaj\u00ed se. Spol\u00e9haj\u00ed na rozhodnut\u00ed jin\u00fdch lid\u00ed, \u017eiv\u00ed se n\u00e1zory v\u0161ech ostatn\u00edch a podce\u0148uj\u00ed se. Pro spoluz\u00e1visl\u00e9 lidi jsou d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ostatn\u00ed. P\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lej\u00ed o v\u011bcech jako \u201eCo by d\u011blali, kdyby v m\u00fdch bot\u00e1ch?\u201c, \u201eCo by d\u011blali?\u201c Nejsou schopni myslet sami za sebe.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>Cvi\u010den\u00ed kontroly<\/strong>\n<p>Jak jsme zm\u00ednili, spoluz\u00e1visl\u00ed lid\u00e9 v\u017edy pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed n\u011bkoho, kdo by rozhodoval m\u00edsto nich. Jeliko\u017e bez n\u00ed nemohou \u017e\u00edt, stanou se skute\u010dn\u011b ovl\u00e1daj\u00edc\u00edmi a manipulativn\u00edmi, aby udr\u017eeli ka\u017ed\u00e9ho a v\u0161e pod kontrolou. Ovl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed lid\u00ed nem\u016f\u017ee pokra\u010dovat bez druh\u00e9ho!<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pochybovat o sob\u011b<\/strong>\n<p>Spoluz\u00e1visl\u00ed lid\u00e9 nemohou \u010delit sv\u011btu nebo \u017eivotu sami. Pochybuj\u00ed, \u017ee v\u016fbec v\u011bd\u00ed, jak \u017e\u00edt, ani\u017e by byli citov\u011b z\u00e1visl\u00ed na jin\u00e9 osob\u011b. Jejich nejistota a obavy br\u00e1n\u00ed jejich schopnosti rozhodovat. 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