[et_pb_section fb_built=“1″ admin_label=“Header“ _builder_version=“4.5.1″ background_color=“#f7f9f9″ background_image=“https:\/\/codependency.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/problem-1-hero.jpg“ custom_padding=“10%||10%||false|false“ collapsed=“off“][et_pb_row _builder_version=“3.25″][et_pb_column type=“4_4″ _builder_version=“3.25″ custom_padding=“60px|||“ custom_padding_tablet=“0px||“ custom_padding_phone=““ custom_padding_last_edited=“on|tablet“ padding_tablet=“0px||“ padding_last_edited=“on|tablet“ custom_padding__hover=“|||“][et_pb_text admin_label=“What is codependence?“ _builder_version=“4.5.1″ text_font=“||||||||“ text_line_height=“2em“ header_font=“Faustina|600|||||||“ header_text_color=“#ffffff“ header_font_size=“60px“ header_line_height=“1.3em“ background_layout=“dark“ hover_enabled=“0″ header_font_size_tablet=“50px“ header_font_size_phone=“30px“ header_font_size_last_edited=“on|phone“]<\/p>\n
[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=“1″ admin_label=“Description“ _builder_version=“4.5.1″ _module_preset=“default“][et_pb_row _builder_version=“4.5.1″ _module_preset=“default“][et_pb_column type=“4_4″ _builder_version=“4.5.1″ _module_preset=“default“][et_pb_text admin_label=“text“ _builder_version=“4.5.1″ text_font=“||||||||“ text_text_color=“#232323″ text_line_height=“2em“ header_font=“Faustina|700|||||||“ header_text_align=“center“ header_text_color=“#0e7162″ header_font_size=“60px“ header_line_height=“1.3em“ header_2_font=“|700|||||||“ header_2_text_align=“center“ header_2_text_color=“#0e7162″ background_layout=“dark“ hover_enabled=“0″ header_font_size_tablet=“50px“ header_font_size_phone=“40px“ header_font_size_last_edited=“on|phone“]Ein Mitabh\u00e4ngiger ist einer, der sich vom Verhalten einer anderen Person beeinflussen l\u00e4sst und von der Idee besessen ist, das Verhalten dieser Person zu kontrollieren.<\/p>\n
Diese andere Person k\u00f6nnte ein Kind, ein Erwachsener, ein Liebhaber, ein Ehemann, ein Bruder, eine Schwester, ein Gro\u00dfvater, eine Gro\u00dfmutter, ein Elternteil, ein Kunde oder ein enger Freund sein. Sie k\u00f6nnen alkohol- oder drogenabh\u00e4ngig sein, eine geistige oder k\u00f6rperliche Krankheit haben, eine normale Person sein, die gelegentlich von d\u00fcsteren Gef\u00fchlen besessen ist, oder eine der oben genannten Personen sein.<\/p>\n
Der Kern der Definition sowie der Wiederherstellungsprozess liegen jedoch nicht in der anderen Person, obwohl wir davon \u00fcberzeugt sind, dass sie die Grundlage f\u00fcr alles sind. Es muss in uns selbst gesucht werden, in der Art und Weise, wie wir zulassen, dass das Verhalten anderer uns beeinflusst, und in der Art und Weise, wie wir versuchen, sie zu beeinflussen – in dieser Besessenheit, Kontrolle, obsessiven „Hilfe“ und F\u00fcrsorge, in dem geringen Selbstwertgef\u00fchl, das dazu f\u00fchrt Selbsthass, Selbstbeherrschung und st\u00e4ndiger Zorn und Schuldgef\u00fchle erleben wir in der seltsamen Abh\u00e4ngigkeit von fremden Menschen die Anziehungskraft auf Exzentrizit\u00e4t und ihre Toleranz, die sich auf die anderen konzentriert und zum R\u00fcckzug aus dem eigenen Selbst, zu Problemen in der Kommunikation und in intimen Beziehungen f\u00fchrt und zu einem st\u00e4ndigen kopf\u00fcber in Traurigkeit, sogar Depressionen versinken.<\/p>\n
Die Mitabh\u00e4ngigkeit ist ein psychologischer Zustand, in dem sich ein Individuum emotional an das andere gebunden f\u00fchlt. In solchen Stadien f\u00fchlen sie sich nicht wertvoll, wichtig. Sie denken, er kann das Leben nicht alleine bew\u00e4ltigen. Sie f\u00fchlen sich verwirrt, schuldig. Sie denken, dass sie nicht gut genug sind, um gl\u00fccklich zu sein und in Frieden zu leben. Sie f\u00fchlen sich allein und missverstanden. Sie denken, sie werden verr\u00fcckt. Tats\u00e4chlich sind sie jedoch mitabh\u00e4ngig. Wenn dies geschieht – wenn Codependenz auftritt, lebt es sein eigenes Leben. Es ist, als ob Sie eine Lungenentz\u00fcndung oder eine schlechte Angewohnheit haben. Sobald man infiziert ist, gibt es kein Entrinnen mehr. Wenn jemand es loswerden will, ist er derjenige, der etwas dagegen tun muss. Es ist egal, wer schuld ist. 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