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Alcuni esperti ritengono che non lo sia. Secondo loro, questa \u00e8 una reazione normale alle persone anormali. Altri sostengono che la codipendenza sia una malattia cronica e progressiva. Secondo questo concetto, i codipendenti vogliono e hanno bisogno che le persone malate intorno a loro si sentano felici in modo malsano. La moglie dell’alcolista ha dovuto sposare una persona del genere e lei lo ha scelto proprio perch\u00e9 inconsciamente pensava che fosse un alcolizzato. Inoltre, ha bisogno della sua ubriachezza e delle sue percosse per sentirsi soddisfatta.<\/p>\n
\u00c8 normale cercare di proteggere e aiutare le persone che amiamo. \u00c8 anche normale essere influenzati e reagire in qualche modo ai problemi degli altri. Pi\u00f9 grave \u00e8 il problema e pi\u00f9 a lungo rimane irrisolto, pi\u00f9 siamo influenti e pi\u00f9 violentemente reagiamo.<\/p>\n
Particolarmente importante \u00e8 la parola “reagire”. Indipendentemente da come ti avvicini alla codipendenza, da come la definisci e da quali posizioni metodologiche cerchi di diagnosticare e trattarla, rimane principalmente un processo reattivo.
\nI codipendenti, principalmente, reagiscono. Spesso la loro reazione \u00e8 inappropriata, pi\u00f9 acuta o pi\u00f9 debole del necessario. Tuttavia, raramente agiscono. I codipendenti rispondono ai problemi, al dolore, alla vita e al comportamento degli altri. Rispondono ai propri problemi, dolore e comportamento. In molti casi, le loro reazioni sono causate dallo stress e dall’insicurezza di vivere o crescere in mezzo ad alcolismo e altri problemi. \u00c8 normale che una persona risponda allo stress. Non \u00e8 anormale, ma richiede uno sforzo eroico ed \u00e8 importante per la nostra stessa sopravvivenza imparare a non reagire, ma ad agire in modo pi\u00f9 sano. Tuttavia, la maggior parte di noi ha bisogno di aiuto per farlo.
\nUna ragione seria per considerare la codipendenza una malattia \u00e8 il suo decorso progressivo. Peggiore \u00e8 la condizione delle persone intorno a noi, pi\u00f9 vigorosamente reagiamo. Quella che inizialmente era ansia lieve pu\u00f2 portare all’isolamento, alla depressione, a malattie emotive o fisiche e persino a pensieri suicidi. Si innesca una reazione a catena e le cose peggiorano rapidamente. La codipendenza potrebbe non essere una malattia, ma pu\u00f2 farci ammalare e impedire alle persone intorno a noi di guarire.<\/p>\n
Un altro motivo per cui la codipendenza pu\u00f2 essere considerata una malattia \u00e8 il fatto che il suo modello caratteristico di comportamento – come la maggior parte dei modelli di azione autodistruttivi – diventa un’abitudine. Le persone ripetono azioni ordinarie senza pensare. In questo modo le abitudini vivono la propria vita.<\/p>\n
Indipendentemente dai problemi che ha l’altra persona, la codipendenza sblocca un sistema stereotipato di pensieri, sentimenti e modi di agire nei confronti di noi stessi e degli altri che possono causarci dolore. I comportamenti e le abitudini codipendenti sono autodistruttivi. Spesso reagiamo alle persone che stanno cercando di rovinare le loro vite imparando a rovinare noi stessi. Queste abitudini possono farti iniziare o mantenere alcune relazioni devastanti che sono destinate al fallimento sin dall’inizio. I modelli di comportamento appresi possono causare il fallimento delle relazioni anche se altrimenti si svilupperebbero bene. Possono impedirci di vivere serenamente e felicemente con la persona pi\u00f9 importante della nostra vita: con noi stessi.<\/p>\n
Il comportamento codipendente proviene dall’unica persona che ognuno di noi \u00e8 in grado di controllare, l’unica persona che siamo in grado di cambiare: noi stessi. 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