[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ admin_label=”Header” _builder_version=”4.5.1″ background_color=”#f7f9f9″ background_image=”https:\/\/codependency.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/problem-1-hero.jpg” custom_padding=”10%||10%||false|false” collapsed=”off”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”60px|||” custom_padding_tablet=”0px||” custom_padding_phone=”” custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” padding_tablet=”0px||” padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text admin_label=”Ce este codependen\u021ba?” _builder_version=”4.5.1″ text_font=”||||||||” text_line_height=”2em” header_font=”Faustina|600|||||||” header_text_color=”#ffffff” header_font_size=”60px” header_line_height=”1.3em” background_layout=”dark” header_font_size_tablet=”50px” header_font_size_phone=”30px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone”]<\/p>\n
[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ admin_label=”Description” _builder_version=”4.5.1″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.5.1″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.5.1″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_text admin_label=”text” _builder_version=”4.5.1″ text_font=”||||||||” text_text_color=”#232323″ text_line_height=”2em” header_font=”Faustina|700|||||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#0e7162″ header_font_size=”60px” header_line_height=”1.3em” header_2_font=”|700|||||||” header_2_text_align=”center” header_2_text_color=”#0e7162″ background_layout=”dark” header_font_size_tablet=”50px” header_font_size_phone=”40px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone”]Un codependent este cel care a permis s\u0103 fie influen\u021bat de comportamentul altei persoane \u0219i este obsedat de ideea de a controla comportamentul acelei persoane.<\/p>\n
Cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103 ar putea fi un copil, un adult, un iubit, un so\u021b, un frate, o sor\u0103, un bunic, o bunic\u0103, un p\u0103rinte, un client sau un prieten apropiat. Ace\u0219tia pot fi alcoolici, dependen\u021bi de droguri, pot avea o boal\u0103 psihic\u0103 sau fizic\u0103, pot fi o persoan\u0103 normal\u0103 care este ocazional obsedat\u0103 de sentimente sumbre sau poate fi una dintre acele persoane men\u021bionate mai sus.<\/p>\n
Cu toate acestea, nucleul defini\u021biei, precum \u0219i procesul de recuperare, nu se afl\u0103 \u00een cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103, \u00een ciuda convingerii noastre c\u0103 acestea stau la baza tuturor. Trebuie c\u0103utat \u00een noi \u00een\u0219ine, \u00een modul \u00een care permitem comportamentul celorlal\u021bi s\u0103 ne influen\u021beze \u0219i \u00een modul \u00een care \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103-i influen\u021b\u0103m – \u00een acea obsesie, control, \u201eajutare\u201d \u0219i grij\u0103 obsesiv\u0103, \u00een sc\u0103derea stimei de sine care duce la ura de sine, autocontrolul, furia \u0219i vinov\u0103\u021bia constante pe care le experiment\u0103m, \u00een ciudata dependen\u021b\u0103 de oameni ciuda\u021bi, atrac\u021bia fa\u021b\u0103 de excentricitate \u0219i toleran\u021ba acesteia, concentr\u00e2ndu-se asupra celorlal\u021bi, duc\u00e2nd la retragerea de la sine, probleme \u00een comunicare \u0219i \u00een rela\u021bii intime \u0219i la o scufundare constant\u0103 cu capul \u00een triste\u021be, chiar \u0219i \u00een depresie.<\/p>\n
Codependen\u021ba este o stare psihologic\u0103 \u00een care un individ se simte legat emo\u021bional de cel\u0103lalt. \u00cen astfel de st\u0103ri, ei nu se simt valoro\u0219i, importan\u021bi. Ei cred c\u0103 nu se pot descurca singuri cu via\u021ba. Se simt confuzi, vinovati. Ei cred c\u0103 nu sunt suficient de buni ca s\u0103 fie ferici\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 \u00een pace. Se simt singuri \u0219i ne\u00een\u021bele\u0219i. Ei cred c\u0103 o iau razna. Dar, de fapt, ace\u0219tia sunt codependen\u021bi. C\u00e2nd se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 acest lucru – c\u00e2nd apare codependen\u021ba, \u00ee\u0219i tr\u0103ie\u0219te propria via\u021b\u0103. Este ca \u0219i cum ai avea o pneumonie sau un obicei prost. Odat\u0103 ce unul este infectat, nu mai exist\u0103 nicio sc\u0103pare. Dac\u0103 o persoan\u0103 dore\u0219te s\u0103 scape de ea, ea este cea care trebuie s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceva \u00een acest sens. Nu conteaz\u0103 cine este vinovat. 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