[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ admin_label=”Header” _builder_version=”4.5.1″ background_color=”#f7f9f9″ background_image=”https:\/\/codependency.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/problem-3-hero.jpg” parallax=”on” custom_padding=”10%||10%||false|false” collapsed=”off”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”60px|||” custom_padding_tablet=”0px||” custom_padding_phone=”” custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” padding_tablet=”0px||” padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text admin_label=”Codependen\u021ba este o boal\u0103?” _builder_version=”4.5.1″ text_font=”||||||||” text_line_height=”2em” header_font=”Faustina|600|||||||” header_text_color=”#ffffff” header_font_size=”60px” header_line_height=”1.3em” background_layout=”dark” header_font_size_tablet=”50px” header_font_size_phone=”30px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone”]<\/p>\n
[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ admin_label=”Description” _builder_version=”4.5.1″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.5.1″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.5.1″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_text admin_label=”text” _builder_version=”4.5.1″ text_font=”||||||||” text_text_color=”#232323″ text_line_height=”2em” header_font=”Faustina|700|||||||” header_text_align=”center” header_text_color=”#0e7162″ header_font_size=”60px” header_line_height=”1.3em” header_2_font=”|700|||||||” header_2_text_align=”center” header_2_text_color=”#0e7162″ background_layout=”dark” header_font_size_tablet=”50px” header_font_size_phone=”40px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone”]Unii exper\u021bi cred c\u0103 nu este. Potrivit acestora, aceasta este o reac\u021bie normal\u0103 la oameni anormali. Al\u021bii sus\u021bin c\u0103 este o boal\u0103 at\u00e2t cronic\u0103, c\u00e2t \u0219i progresiv\u0103. Conform acestui concept, codependen\u021bii doresc \u0219i au nevoie de oameni bolnavi din jurul lor pentru a se sim\u021bi ferici\u021bi \u00eentr-un mod nes\u0103n\u0103tos. So\u021bia alcoolicului a trebuit s\u0103 se c\u0103s\u0103toreasc\u0103 cu o astfel de persoan\u0103 \u0219i ea l-a ales tocmai pentru c\u0103, incon\u0219tient, a crezut c\u0103 este un alcoolic. Mai mult, are nevoie de be\u021bia lui \u0219i de b\u0103t\u0103ile lui pentru a se sim\u021bi mul\u021bumit\u0103.<\/p>\n
Este normal s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 protej\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 ajut\u0103m oamenii pe care \u00eei iubim. De asemenea, este normal s\u0103 fii influen\u021bat \u0219i s\u0103 reac\u021bionezi \u00eentr-un anumit fel la problemele altora. Cu c\u00e2t problema este mai grav\u0103 \u0219i cu c\u00e2t r\u0103m\u00e2ne nerezolvat\u0103 mai mult, cu at\u00e2t suntem mai influen\u021bi \u0219i reac\u021bion\u0103m mai violent.<\/p>\n
Deosebit de important aici este cuv\u00e2ntul \u201ea reac\u021biona\u201c. Indiferent de modul \u00een care aborda\u021bi codependen\u021ba, modul \u00een care o defini\u021bi \u0219i din ce pozi\u021bii metodologice \u00eencerca\u021bi s\u0103 o diagnostica\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 o trata\u021bi, r\u0103m\u00e2ne \u00een primul r\u00e2nd un proces reactiv. Codependen\u021bii \u00een general reac\u021bioneaz\u0103. De multe ori reac\u021bia lor este inadecvat\u0103 – mai ascu\u021bit\u0103 sau mai slab\u0103 dec\u00e2t este necesar. Cu toate acestea, rareori ac\u021bioneaz\u0103. Codependen\u021bii r\u0103spund la problemele, durerea, via\u021ba \u0219i comportamentul altora. Ei r\u0103spund la propriile probleme, durere \u0219i comportament. \u00cen multe cazuri, reac\u021biile lor sunt cauzate de stresul \u0219i nesiguran\u021ba de a tr\u0103i sau de a cre\u0219te \u00een mijlocul alcoolismului \u0219i a altor probleme. Este normal ca o persoan\u0103 s\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103 la stres. Nu este anormal, dar necesit\u0103 un efort eroic \u0219i este important pentru supravie\u021buirea noastr\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m nu s\u0103 reac\u021bion\u0103m, ci s\u0103 ac\u021bion\u0103m \u00eentr-un mod mai s\u0103n\u0103tos. Cu toate acestea, majoritatea dintre noi avem nevoie de ajutor pentru a face acest lucru.<\/p>\n
Un motiv serios pentru care codependen\u021ba s\u0103 fie considerat\u0103 o boal\u0103 este evolu\u021bia sa progresiv\u0103. Cu c\u00e2t starea oamenilor din jurul nostru este mai rea, cu at\u00e2t reac\u021bion\u0103m mai energic. Ceea ce a fost ini\u021bial anxietate u\u0219oar\u0103 poate duce la izolare, depresie, boli emo\u021bionale sau fizice \u0219i chiar g\u00e2nduri suicidare. Se declan\u0219eaz\u0103 o reac\u021bie \u00een lan\u021b \u0219i lucrurile se \u00eenr\u0103ut\u0103\u021besc rapid. Codependen\u021ba poate s\u0103 nu fie o boal\u0103, dar poate s\u0103 ne \u00eemboln\u0103veasc\u0103, precum \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eempiedice recuperarea oamenilor din jurul nostru.<\/p>\n
Un alt motiv pentru care codependen\u021ba s\u0103 fie considerat\u0103 o boal\u0103 este faptul c\u0103 modelul s\u0103u caracteristic de comportament – la fel ca majoritatea modelelor de ac\u021biune autodistructive – devine un obicei. Oamenii repet\u0103 ac\u021biuni obi\u0219nuite f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 se g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103. \u00cen acest fel, obiceiurile \u00ee\u0219i tr\u0103iesc propriile vie\u021bi.<\/p>\n
Indiferent de problemele pe care le are cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103, codependen\u021ba deblocheaz\u0103 un sistem stereotip de g\u00e2nduri, sentimente \u0219i moduri de a ac\u021biona fa\u021b\u0103 de noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i de ceilal\u021bi care ne pot provoca durere. Comportamentele \u0219i obiceiurile codependente sunt autodistructive. De multe ori reac\u021bion\u0103m la oamenii care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i distrug\u0103 via\u021ba \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u00e2nd s\u0103 ne ruineze pe noi \u00een\u0219ine. Aceste obiceiuri v\u0103 pot determina s\u0103 \u00eencepe\u021bi sau s\u0103 men\u021bine\u021bi unele rela\u021bii devastatoare care sunt sortite e\u0219ecului de la \u00eenceput. Modelele de comportament \u00eenv\u0103\u021bate pot provoca e\u0219ecul rela\u021biilor, de\u0219i altfel s-ar dezvolta bine. 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